One of my clients’ told me during our last session:
We are all like stations on a radio. Vibrating with or not at all with others. He told me that he thought I had a rare gift, of being able to connect with many different stations (vibrations). He felt lucky to have met me. I was also equally honoured to have known him.
So what if we use his analogy with love?
So I wonder when we are emotionally connected with someone…we are hearing them so clearly…it is amazing. When we fight, it’s blurry and fuzzy…and sometimes dead air. When there is that undeniable spark of connection. Do we blow the fuse? Our brains stop working and we float into a new station together…but eventually drop back down into the original station? Hmmm I love this analogy…of love
When we fight, it’s blurry and fuzzy…and sometimes dead air. When there is that undeniable spark of connection. Do we blow the fuse? Our brains stop working and we float into a new station together…but eventually drop back down into the original station? Hmmm I love this analogy…of love
When there is that undeniable spark of connection. Do we blow the fuse? Our brains stop working and we float into a new station together…but eventually drop back down into the original station?
It is when we float back to the original station, do we get bored? Do we look for another station (or partner)?
Are we even on the same frequency as our partners? If not, I suspect that is when therapy is most often used because people want connection in their lives. They want to be heard and seen.